What ever avenue you wish to explore, swingers are the most sexually liberated people who you can meet, and they love helping each other explore fantasies and desires.


Tips for people new to Swinging scene.

Tip 1. - Joining a site.
We recommend this site, as we know we have lots of swingers waiting to swing with you. Some new to the scene, some who are old hands so to speak. What we can say is that as a whole, we find our members very friendly and accommodating. We are used to newbies and we do our best to make sure that your introduction to the swinger's community is a happy and sexy one.

Tip 2. - Writing your advert.
Come on Guys and Girls, this is what sells you to the other members. Be as full and as frank as you like. Be honest, let us know what turns you on and makes you hot. Also remember that you are trying to meet friends for intimacy, a picture does say all the words you forgot to put in your advert. Don't forget to put how far you are willing to go! You can of course always change your picture or advert yourself online later if you wish to do so.

Tip 3. - Messaging other swingers.
The message of "I like your pic, fancy a screw." does not get the imagination going. You're after meeting others for fun and frolics, put a little effort in. Again make sure you have got pictures with your advert, which you can point to in your messages. A message is always a good place to mention a fantasy or kinky desire you have, and again to mention the limits that you and your partner have chosen to follow.

Tip 4. - Safe Sex.
It is always a good idea to use protection, when having more than one partner. In this day and age it makes good common sense to be safer than sorry.

Tip 5. - Don't rush head on into that first meeting.
Email each other a few times, make a few calls and get to know each other before arranging that first meeting. Swapping of photos (not nude ones are fine) is always a good idea. We always like to know before hand that we are likely going to end up with. Also meet in a pub, or over a meal. This we have found is also a good icebreaker and a good indication of whether you will want to go further than a couple of drinks.

Tip 6. - Parties.
Now we do like a good party, but this is not something to dive into if you a swinging virgin. A party is normally three or four couples, which meet up in a house for dinner, with good old group-sex for desert. We only have parties with couples we have swung with before. That way we are sure that all will have a good time. If you got any space for your parties, don't forget to email the swingers portal and we will drop an advert out to all the members. These we will forward on to you and you can choose which ones you want to invite.

Tip 7. Toys are fun
Every swinging couple needs a box of toys. Remember to keep these clean. We personally pack a box of wet wipes in our little overnight toy bag. That way we can wipe the toys down after use, and clear up any err spills.

Tip 8. Most amusing tip told to us from another Swinging couple.
If you always gip when attempting to perform a blowjob, practice on a fat carrot. What can I say? The things people get up to.

Tip 9. Be open-minded.
Listen to the desires of your partner(s) and if you wish give some of the stuff a try. You might like it. That's how I found out I liked a good spanking.